Or merely a set of secretly coded agreements that align, and sometimes not? And boundaries that are maintained, or may get crossed? So then, might it be down to us to keep communicating, tweaking, nurturing and course-correcting that relationship? So that, we can all get along in life – without having to second guess our…
“I appear to have several hours a day spare. I know, I’ll get a puppy!” Says no one. The same can be said when starting a family. The desire comes first. Then, we slowly begin to craft our lives around this small, helpless creature. Making time, sacrifices and decisions based on outcomes we couldn’t possibly foresee. And…
There’s no innovation, without failure. I’ve smashed through this Netflix series called “Movies That Made Us” – fascinating stuff. Namely because these classic greats were all doomed for failure. Of course, there are thousands of films made and discarded every year… but some make it through and go on to become the movies of our…
For many, myself included, joining the military was a means to an end.That “end” being – where we were at the time. As opposed to the bigger picture end – as Stephen Covey quotes, “Begin with the end in mind”. We weren’t saying to ourselves – right I want to work in X industry and…
Is all relative to person, place, time and situation. How to solve a problem – might be resolved with an easy internet search, asking an expert or referring to a standard operating procedure. Then there’s another dynamic at play – How you might solve a problem. What unique perspective, worldview and imagination do you bring…
Purpose and what we do are very interlinked – which has pros and cons. In that, we get great satisfaction from what we do when it aligns with a purpose (little p). But, when we solely rely on what we do to fuel how we feel we are accomplishing our own unique Purpose (big P),…
When folks leave the Armed Forces, I see too much inactivity and hiding because of fear of the unknown. Add on top of that, the embedded military values and culture that has been instilled in people as they evolve into the Serviceperson. And the uncertainty of what that might look like on the other side as…
When we could meet up, while I was visiting a friend and he was making a toy model with his son. My friend works away a lot and you might conjure up a beautiful image of a father and son making a model and spending quality time together. In reality, I watched as the joy…
Means: The Fear Of Missing Out Feels a little too whimsical for my liking. Missing out on what, exactly? How might replacing it with Opportunities shift it? Because sometimes, the very thing we are avoiding… is the very thing we need to be doing. armed forcesCoachingleadershipmilitary
Reflection: I did stuff this way. Intention: Do more stuff another way. Sometimes, it really is that simple. armed forcesCoachingleadershipmilitary
Abbie Pierce 